今天早上看了这段video，我的泪水像断了线一样止不住。在这段youtube跟贴里，有一段话：
that is a model to what every father should be, by his child no matter what, that man is an awesome father and human being. That is family support and seeing your children through their trials and tribulations. Mr Redmond god bless you, you are an example for men to follow as a father.; You did what very few do you stood by your son and saw that it wasnt about winning it was about finishing what you start. the morals and ethics you must have instilled in your son are remarkeable, amen 2 you。

是的，当面对孩子的失败，孩子的挫折，Derek Redmond的父亲给了他父亲的肩膀，不是怨天尤人。虽然这次比赛Derek失败了，但他的父亲和他，有一个成功的人生。

有多少父母能像Derek Redmond那样做父亲？

一个学生，上周六的SAT刚考完，他的母亲问他考得怎么样。他说不怎么样。这位母亲对孩子给予重望，她自己先被击败了，恼羞成怒，开始劈头盖脸责骂孩子，责骂补习的老师，责骂补习的学校。。。看着孩子从无奈的眼光，到失落的表情，转而对辛苦养育他的母亲愤怒相对，终于和母亲相持对骂。。。

看到这一切，我的心除了疼，我无能为力。

我只能拍拍这位高中生的肩膀，默然离开。

回到办公室，每每想到那暴风骤雨的场面，想到那位母亲极度失落愤怒的表情，想到那个孩子，我有的只是无奈的泪，疼痛的心。

愿上帝的爱融化这位母亲的心，连接她和她的孩子。。。